Paying it forward is more than just a kind gesture — it’s a powerful force for good that has the potential to transform someone’s day, week, or even life. It’s about selflessly spreading positivity and making the world a brighter, kinder place. As a writer, you’ve undoubtedly encountered your own share of challenges along the way. Having witnessed these struggles firsthand, I understand the immense significance of paying it forward whenever and wherever we can.

#Storytime:

I was having one of those mornings. Parent’s, I’m sure this will sound familiar. My eyes slowly opened to shrieks and screams. This early? I covered my face with my pillow, wishing it was just a dream. But it wasn’t. I knew if I didn’t respond to the three toddler tornadoes that I’d feel their wrath. My feet hit the floor, avoiding Legos and Hot Wheels.

Adjusting my robe, I dragged my sleep deprived body to the kitchen searching for coffee and there was none. That’s right. I forgot to pick up a new box from the store. With an enormous deep sigh and theatrical urgency, I throw waffles in the toaster, before racing to the bathroom to brush my teeth. I timed it just right.

Screams echoed down the hall. I had three hungry tornadoes quickly spinning and I was in the pathway of destruction. As soon as the waffles were done, my teeth sparkled like a shiny diamond. “Kids, we’re going to take a ride in the car!”

“Yay!” Their voices roared with excitement. I grabbed shoes, buckled them in carseats and pulled out of the driveway faster than lightning– robe and all.

***

“Welcome to Starbucks, what can I start you with today?”

“Kids, shhhh!!!”I turned around with my pointer finger touching my lips, hoping my motion would move them to silence. It didn’t.

“I’m sorry, ma’am. I’d like a Grande’ Hot White Chocolate Mocha.”

She gave me the price, I pulled up to the window, and she replied, “The car in front of you just paid for your order.”

My heart dropped. I was that mama that was about to break down, and the person in front of me responded with a wave, as if they could see my agony through my tinted windows.

The concept of paying it forward is truly inspiring! Just imagine the joy of brightening someone’s day by buying them a cup of coffee. But you know what’s even more incredible? Extending this same kindness to authors. Even better, you don’t have to spend a fortune to make a meaningful impact.

Here are some ways you can pay it forward to another author:

1. Buy them a cup of coffee: Many writers usually write with a hot cup beside them. If you don’t know whether or not your author friend drinks coffee, consider gifting them with a gift card to a coffee shop. There are always several options.
2. Offer to read their WIP: Sometimes it’s hard to ask others to read our work. Consider offering to read several pages (or chapters) and offering feedback. This is always so helpful!
3. Share writing resources: If you have access to resources that have helped you, chances are, they may also help another author. There’s room at the table for everyone. Sharing is caring.
4. Promote their work: You can help boost their visibility by sharing their writing on social media, recommending their books to others, or even collaborating on projects together. By helping to amplify their voice, you can help them reach a wider audience and gain more recognition for their talent.

Paying it forward doesn’t have to be a grand gesture. Small acts of kindness can have a big impact on another author’s life. By doing something good for someone else, you’re not only making their day a little brighter, but you’re also contributing to a more positive and compassionate world.